Blog #1
The focus of my professional experiences over the past decade has been helping survivors of sex trafficking and exploitation through advocacy, direct services, and empowerment. What many do not realize is that trafficking and domestic violence are interrelated. Most adult victims of these crimes experienced sexual and/or physical abuse as children and most witnessed domestic violence between their parents/caregivers. Both trafficking and domestic violence are considered “hidden in plain sight crimes” because the victims are unlikely to come forward due to fear, many do not identify as victims since they feel they chose to stay, people do not recognize the signs of these crimes and many do not think these crimes happen to anyone close to them.
Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM), observed every October, is a time to amplify the voices of survivors, raise awareness, and take actionable steps to break the cycle of violence. Honoring survivors goes beyond acknowledgment—it’s about creating spaces of healing, understanding, and empowerment. Here are meaningful ways you can show support and make a difference:
1. Listen and Learn
Survivors’ stories are powerful. Educate yourself on the dynamics of domestic violence by listening to survivor narratives, attending webinars, or reading resources from reputable organizations like the National Domestic Violence Hotline or local shelters. When you understand the challenges survivors face, you’re better equipped to offer meaningful support.2. Wear Purple
Purple is the official color of DVAM, symbolizing courage and perseverance. Whether it’s a pin, scarf, or full outfit, wearing purple is a simple yet impactful way to show solidarity and spark conversations.3. Support Local Shelters and Organizations
Donate your time, resources, or funds to organizations that provide shelter, counseling, and legal aid for survivors. Even small gestures—like donating toiletries or organizing a fundraiser—can significantly impact those in need. Whether you’re a lawyer, therapist, graphic designer, or community organizer, your skills can benefit organizations dedicated to domestic violence prevention. Reach out to see how you can contribute meaningfully.
4. Raise Awareness on Social Media
Use your platform to share educational posts, survivor stories (with their consent), and resources. Spreading awareness helps reduce stigma and encourages those experiencing abuse to seek help.
5. Attend or Organize Events
Many communities host candlelight vigils, walks, and panel discussions during DVAM. Participating in these events shows public support for survivors. Alternatively, you can host an event like a self-care workshop, educational seminar, or donation drive.
6. Advocate for Policy Change
Support legislation that strengthens protections for survivors, increases funding for shelters, and holds abusers accountable. Contact your local representatives and urge them to prioritize domestic violence prevention and survivor resources.
7. Provide a Trauma-Informed Response and Create Safe Spaces
If someone discloses their experience with abuse, respond with empathy. Phrases like “I believe you” and “It’s not your fault” can make a world of difference. Respect their autonomy in deciding their next steps. Work to ensure your community—whether it’s a workplace, faith-based group, or social circle—feels safe for survivors. Promote policies and practices that discourage abuse and encourage open dialogue.
8. Commit to Long-Term Action
Domestic violence doesn’t only happen in October. Make it a year-round mission to support survivors and address the root causes of abuse through education, advocacy, and intentional actions.
By showing up, listening, and taking tangible steps, you can honor survivors not just during DVAM but every day. Together, we can build a society where safety and respect are a reality for everyone.
If you or someone you know needs help, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
or text “START” to 88788.
